Amazingly, some men may balk at the idea of receiving an erotic massage. If your husband is reluctant to be rubbed and cherished for a half hour, simply say, "Try this for me. No strings attached. Just lie down and enjoy. If you hate it after five minutes, we'll stop." Men, strangely, often need to be pulled to heaven, kicking and screaming the whole way. If he's a willing participant, get him to do a few minutes of simple stretching beforehand. Have him prepare his body for a massage the same way he'd get ready for a run: a few lunges to loosen the legs, a few arm twirls for the arms and back. His circulation will improve, and his muscle tension will ease up.
Five minutesHave him lie face up on the bed; position yourself behind his head. (Since this is only a 30-minute massage, we're not including the back. But it has a few major erogenous zones there — shoulder blades, lower back, butt — if you have some extra time.)
Spend five minutes on his head and face. Begin by scratching his scalp with your nails. Trace the folds of his ears, the contours of his cheekbones and nose. Next, place your palms on the back of his head, as if you were holding a cantaloupe in cupped hands. Where his neck meets the skull, you'll find little hollows in the bone. These hollows — acupressure points, actually — are little-known erogenous zones. To give them their due, put your fingertips on them and gradually increase the pressure. Then grasp his head at the jaw and pull it toward you gently, stretching his neck muscles. "By pressing the points and stretching muscles, you'll increase his circulation and awaken his senses," says acupressure expert Michael Reed Gach, Ph.D.
The Third Eye (center of the forehead, directly between the eyebrows) and the temples (at the sides of the forehead) are also acupressure points. Gently press the Third Eye for 60 seconds; then lightly rotate your fingers on his temples for 30 seconds. This will relieve tension and allow sexual excitement to flow.
Belly and Hips
Three minutes
Make a three-minute sojourn to the hip region. The area that runs from the belly button to the genitalia is an erogenous zone, so don't neglect it. Start with the navel itself: With well-oiled hands, circle the rim of an innie, or the base camp of an outie (a direct hit might give your husband the willies). Three or four finger-widths down from there, you'll find a super-important spot acupressurists call the Gate of Origin, right over the bladder. Press it very gently (if he didn't pee before the massage began, he may need to now) to "open sexual energy," says Gach — to turn him on, in other words.
"You'll find acupressure points where the legs join the trunk of the body (those thick tendons in the groin). Lean into them gradually with the heel of your hand," advises Gach. "Ask your partner to breathe into your hands; hold this position for a minute or two." His sexual energy is flowing like a raging river by now.
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